Thursday, December 31, 2009
well i watched alvin and the chipmunks with yiyi yesterday cos she had no one to watch it with. hahahaha!! eeeek theodore is so cutee!! i feel like squishing him hahahahaha!! his voice is so high-pitched and his eyes are so big and he's so chubby. hahahaa!! ahh...sorry.
hmm today i woke up at 9am!! ahhh so late! anyway, did set notation...then played around in bed. hehehe...then decided to find a new blogskin. harhar. took me like, an hour, cos for some reason, all the blogskins that i liked could not be loaded. like the pictures and everything for the background, so instead of seeing a nice pretty pic, you see something saying photobucketphotobucketphotobucket. and it happened 3 times! and i couldn't help but go RAAAAARGHHH!!! and grab my hair. hah...anyway, managed to find another one.
i can't believe it's the end of 2009! noooo! so fast! i'm OLD!! DD:
Monday, December 28, 2009
ENFJ -Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging. Outstanding leader of groups. Can be aggressive at helping others to be the best that they can be. 2.5% of total population.
The Giver
As an ENFJ, you're primary mode of living is focused externally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your personal value system. Your secondary mode is internal, where you take things in primarily via your intuition.
ENFJs are people-focused individuals. They live in the world of people possibilities. More so than any other type, they have excellent people skills. They understand and care about people, and have a special talent for bringing out the best in others. ENFJ's main interest in life is giving love, support, and a good time to other people. They are focused on understanding, supporting, and encouraging others. They make things happen for people, and get their best personal satisfaction from this.
Because ENFJ's people skills are so extraordinary, they have the ability to make people do exactly what they want them to do. They get under people's skins and get the reactions that they are seeking. ENFJ's motives are usually unselfish, but ENFJs who have developed less than ideally have been known to use their power over people to manipulate them.
ENFJ's are so externally focused that it's especially important for them to spend time alone. This can be difficult for some ENFJs, because they have the tendency to be hard on themselves and turn to dark thoughts when alone. Consequently, ENFJs might avoid being alone, and fill their lives with activities involving other people. ENFJs tend to define their life's direction and priorities according to other people's needs, and may not be aware of their own needs. It's natural to their personality type that they will tend to place other people's needs above their own, but they need to stay aware of their own needs so that they don't sacrifice themselves in their drive to help others.
ENFJ's tend to be more reserved about exposing themselves than other extraverted types. Although they may have strongly-felt beliefs, they're likely to refrain from expressing them if doing so would interfere with bringing out the best in others. Because their strongest interest lies in being a catalyst of change in other people, they're likely to interact with others on their own level, in a chameleon-like manner, rather than as individuals.
Which is not to say that the ENFJ does not have opinions. ENFJs have definite values and opinions which they're able to express clearly and succinctly. These beliefs will be expressed as long as they're not too personal. ENFJ is in many ways expressive and open, but is more focused on being responsive and supportive of others. When faced with a conflict between a strongly-held value and serving another person's need, they are highly likely to value the other person's needs.
The ENFJ may feel quite lonely even when surrounded by people. This feeling of aloneness may be exacerbated by the tendency to not reveal their true selves.
People love ENFJs. They are fun to be with, and truly understand and love people. They are typically very straight-forward and honest. Usually ENFJs exude a lot of self-confidence, and have a great amount of ability to do many different things. They are generally bright, full of potential, energetic and fast-paced. They are usually good at anything which captures their interest.
ENFJs like for things to be well-organized, and will work hard at maintaining structure and resolving ambiguity. They have a tendency to be fussy, especially with their home environments.
In the work place, ENFJs do well in positions where they deal with people. They are naturals for the social committee. Their uncanny ability to understand people and say just what needs to be said to make them happy makes them naturals for counseling. They enjoy being the center of attention, and do very well in situations where they can inspire and lead others, such as teaching.
ENFJs do not like dealing with impersonal reasoning. They don't understand or appreciate its merit, and will be unhappy in situations where they're forced to deal with logic and facts without any connection to a human element. Living in the world of people possibilities, they enjoy their plans more than their achievements. They get excited about possibilities for the future, but may become easily bored and restless with the present.
ENFJs have a special gift with people, and are basically happy people when they can use that gift to help others. They get their best satisfaction from serving others. Their genuine interest in Humankind and their exceptional intuitive awareness of people makes them able to draw out even the most reserved individuals.
ENFJs have a strong need for close, intimate relationships, and will put forth a lot of effort in creating and maintaining these relationships. They're very loyal and trustworthy once involved in a relationship.
An ENFJ who has not developed their Feeling side may have difficulty making good decisions, and may rely heavily on other people in decision-making processes. If they have not developed their Intuition, they may not be able to see possibilities, and will judge things too quickly based on established value systems or social rules, without really understanding the current situation. An ENFJ who has not found their place in the world is likely to be extremely sensitive to criticism, and to have the tendency to worry excessively and feel guilty. They are also likely to be very manipulative and controling with others.
In general, ENFJs are charming, warm, gracious, creative and diverse individuals with richly developed insights into what makes other people tick. This special ability to see growth potential in others combined with a genuine drive to help people makes the ENFJ a truly valued individual. As giving and caring as the ENFJ is, they need to remember to value their own needs as well as the needs of others.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
am i not a great friend!?
heehee but it was quite fun. i think they're sadistic, and i'm a masochist. hahaha! but still, at least it wasn't boring. (:
Friday, December 25, 2009




Monday, December 21, 2009
Saturday, December 19, 2009
we've ditched the car and we're using public transport to get around rome right now. today was a really long day...went to see the colosseum, pantheon, palatine, the Trevvy fountain and the cappuchin tombs. harhar, they were cool stuff. the first 3 landmarks were mostly ruins, but the cappuchin tombs was the most interesting cos the cemetery was sorta made outta bones and skulls and lots of dead bodies were everywhere. but it's a holy place so it's alright. (: the fountain was totally awesome! i don't know how to describe it really, but it was too cool to be true. i should paste a pic of it here when i get home. well, at the fountain the tradition is for people to throw a coin into the fountain over their left shoulder, cos if you do that you'll come back to rome for a second time. hahaha! cute. then we had to run about 2 to 3km all over the streets of Rome back to the place where the bus will pick us up because we walked so much today. hahaha! but it really warmed me up cos it was damn cold. grrr! my dad da baoed - if that's how you spell it - Macs for us for dinner, cos a sandwhich in the hotel cost us £14...yucks! so bloody expensive.
tomorrow is going to be another long dayyy! gonna see the vatican and 3 churches and maybe the spanish steps and maybe some more ruins. nooo! but then sunday will be pretty boring, cos i'll be catching the morning flight back to singapore...it takes about 12 hours, and since i'm 7 hours behind you all, i'll reach in the morning at about 6.45am on the 21st of December, reach home at 9 something, change and bathe, grab something to eat, then head over to amk hub to buy something that costs $2 for the gift exchange at track camp, then go to school at 12 something. whee! can't wait to see all the sprinters too! hahaha! XDD wonder how you all are doing mann..
wells, it's been a long post and i'm going off nowww. (; take care of yourself, all the people out there! i'm coming HOME!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Saturday, December 5, 2009
gonna watch movies until from 1am to 6am on the plane, cos i HAVE to sleep at 6 as it's 11 o'clock at night in italy...so it'll be sorta easier for me to adjust my body to the new time schedule. haha...i'm so going to die. that means i wouldn't have slept in 22 hours. god help me. oooh but i'm coming back at 6.45am on the 21st singapore time! that means i can come for the track camp! yes!! but that also means it's around 12 midnight in italy, so i won't go for training...but at least i can come for the second part of the camp and the barbeque! wheee! hahaha!
soo goodbye everyone. i'm gonna miss you all, and good luck with training, all the trackers out there. don't die from a heart attack if you see more snakes in the holding school.
Friday, December 4, 2009
now i'm feeling bored, terribly bored. and i'm starting to despair cos my bloody leg doesn't wanna dry up and turn into a scab. urghh!! how am i going to wear jeans tomorrow!? sucks...i'll have to wear it for 15 hours on the plane...goodness. italy here i come...but i'll miss everyone here. bleah...amazing, since this is the first trip that i have ever been so un-excited to go on. well, it's cold there so it'll cheer me up but, i'll miss you all! everyone who reads this post and everyone who doesn't, i'll miss you all...grrr! )): but don't be sad, cos i'll be coming back soon enough. yay! ahahaha! (:
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
yesterday i watched Star Trek wit my bro and mom..and the funny thing is we started watching it a 11 o'clock at night and ended at 1am today. haaaha! great movie! i love it! and the soundtrack is just so bloody awesoe!! woot!! hahaha! wells, i woke up at 9 today, and was so bloody bored in the morning i watched Home On The Range by myself, then mythbusters straight after...i somehow can't wait for training tomorrow, cos i wanna see the weird ad wonderful ideas of ms natasha to make us train...heehee...and i FINALLY managed to make my new ez-link card yippee! then i followed my mom to some GARMIN thingy to lear how to download the maps of Europe into the new GPS we bought specially for this holiday. harhar.
mommy!! stop tooting!!